Before You Decide: Key Considerations for Having an “Ours” BabyThe decision to have a child is not one to take lightly, especially in a stepfamily. For some, it’s a straightforward “yes,” while for…Nov 14Nov 14
The Micro-Community Mindset: Fostering Growth in Your StepfamilyHave you ever felt like the odd one out in your own family? Like the expectations of what a “normal” family should look like don’t quite…Nov 13Nov 13
The Dad’s Perspective: Why He Might (or Might Not) Want an “Ours” BabyThe decision to have a child together is a major step for any couple, but it can be even more complex in blended families. When Bernard and…Nov 9Nov 9
A New Sibling: How Stepchildren May Feel About an “Ours” BabyWhen I first began exploring stepfamily dynamics, there was limited information available on the implications of remarried couples having…Nov 6Nov 6
10 Years Later: Revisiting the Decision to Have an “Ours” Baby in a StepfamilyTen years ago, I wrote the article “Should We or Shouldn’t We Have an Ours Baby?” for StepMom Magazine after interviewing 70 stepmoms about…Nov 2Nov 2
How to Stop Walking on Eggshells and Reclaim Your Life as a StepmomI know firsthand how tough it can be to navigate life as a stepmom. You want to keep the peace, but sometimes it feels like you’re walking…Sep 25Sep 25
Transform Your Stepfamily with Effective Family MeetingsIn our early years as a stepfamily, I struggled to connect with my stepdaughters, avoid overprotecting my son, and create a strong and…Jun 27Jun 27
The Grand Adventure: How Shared Dreams Can Lead to a More Fulfilling RelationshipHave you ever hesitated to share a story, even though you know it might inspire others? That was me, unsure why I felt reluctant. But then…Mar 16Mar 16
My Top Three Secrets For Thriving As A StepmomEmbarking on the path of a stepmom is to step into a role that is very complex. It’s a position that requires a delicate balance of…Feb 14Feb 14
5 Essential Tips for Stepmoms to Overcome Holiday StressThe holiday season, for me, has always been a mix of joy and challenge. As a professional hairstylist, this time of the year was my…Dec 14, 2023Dec 14, 2023
