Is Fear Holding You Back From Connecting With Your Stepchildren?🙍♀️ “The stepkids don’t love me. They don’t even like me.” 😞 “Their mom can’t stand me, and I feel like I can’t do anything right.” 😔…5d ago5d ago
Before You Decide: Key Considerations for Having an “Ours” BabyThe decision to have a child is not one to take lightly, especially in a stepfamily. For some, it’s a straightforward “yes,” while for…Nov 14, 2024Nov 14, 2024
The Micro-Community Mindset: Fostering Growth in Your StepfamilyHave you ever felt like the odd one out in your own family? Like the expectations of what a “normal” family should look like don’t quite…Nov 13, 2024Nov 13, 2024
The Dad’s Perspective: Why He Might (or Might Not) Want an “Ours” BabyThe decision to have a child together is a major step for any couple, but it can be even more complex in blended families. When Bernard and…Nov 9, 2024Nov 9, 2024
A New Sibling: How Stepchildren May Feel About an “Ours” BabyWhen I first began exploring stepfamily dynamics, there was limited information available on the implications of remarried couples having…Nov 6, 2024Nov 6, 2024
10 Years Later: Revisiting the Decision to Have an “Ours” Baby in a StepfamilyTen years ago, I wrote the article “Should We or Shouldn’t We Have an Ours Baby?” for StepMom Magazine after interviewing 70 stepmoms about…Nov 2, 2024Nov 2, 2024
How to Stop Walking on Eggshells and Reclaim Your Life as a StepmomI know firsthand how tough it can be to navigate life as a stepmom. You want to keep the peace, but sometimes it feels like you’re walking…Sep 25, 2024Sep 25, 2024
Transform Your Stepfamily with Effective Family MeetingsIn our early years as a stepfamily, I struggled to connect with my stepdaughters, avoid overprotecting my son, and create a strong and…Jun 27, 2024Jun 27, 2024
The Grand Adventure: How Shared Dreams Can Lead to a More Fulfilling RelationshipHave you ever hesitated to share a story, even though you know it might inspire others? That was me, unsure why I felt reluctant. But then…Mar 16, 2024Mar 16, 2024
